I'm sorry, is this your wedding??

I didn't realize how rude people could become at the near mention of someone they know having a wedding. I'm mean really... do you care that much. So much that I can't even get what I want? Apparently so. It appears that although I may be getting married on Aug. 27th, I'm not the one whose wedding it is. I've had more complaints in the last month from random family members than I get at work six months. (And that's saying A LOT). People are making such random demands from who HAS to be in the wedding, from what we are giving as favors to what time it is and to who is sitting next to who. WHO CARES?? If you don't like it, then DON'T COME! I won't even be offended. In fact, I will be overjoyed that you voluntary elimated yourself off the guest list, and I don't have to pay $21 for you to eat. I'm so sick of this stupid wedding planning that I've decided that is will be done by Thanksgiving. Because there is no way I'm going to family functions and getting bombarded with tips and ideas. Instead, I can say, "I'm sorry you have an opinion about that, but it's already DONE! Have a nice life." Needless to say, I'm a little bitter.